Is Size That Important – It’s a Matter of Perspective

The age old question that seems to have been argued since the birds started chirping. It seems there is a great divide between both sides with half truths and down right lies surrounding the subject.

What is interesting is that most women will respond with the same line over and over again, “it’s not the size that matters, it’s what you do with it”. Granted there is enough truth in that argument to make some men feel at ease but the cold hard truth can be a completely different matter.

The general consensus is that the average penis size is 5.1-5.9″ when erect. Now while this number covers the vast majority of men out there, there are quite a few that few below the average with some suffering from Micropenis (0.6%), a penis no larger than just over 2 inches when erect.

Regardless of your penis size there is no doubt that you would love to be a little bit longer, thicker or both. The reality is that almost all men are unhappy about their penis size. Is this because we correlate our ability to satisfy women with penis size instead of our abilities in the bedroom. Do we compare ourselves with men in adult movies and see where we stack up against other men? Chances are yes, absolutely, our ego would love to proudly show off a monster between the sheets but what does this men in the bigger picture.

Being bigger doesn’t mean being better, smaller or just below average doesn’t mean you can’t knock it out of the park time and time again. The general feeling I believe is the lack of confidence men have when it comes to the crunch and getting down to business. Many men may tell themselves “I’m not big enough” and seal their own fate. There is no doubt that being happy with the size of your penis will give you the confidence in the bedroom, feel relaxed and confident while but it will do little to push a woman’s buttons.

So the question remains? Does size matter or is it just an illusion, a mental phantom guys have come up with to feel insecure and self conscious. Is there a point where a man would settle for what is got even if he is given the option for extra size?

Size definitely plays a role to some extent but there are many factors to consider. Some women may feel they require a bigger penis to “get off”, this in itself may not be true but just the mental requirement is enough to make it reality while others really do need something a little bigger.  There really is such a thing is TOO BIG and for some guys this is more of a curse than a gift. Imagine the need to “be careful”, not exactly the sex life any guy would want.

If you look at the graph you will see the vast majority of men falling within the 5-6″ range. If you fall within this range but are still self conscious you maybe thinking that your size is not enough, in reality us men have a hard time being honest. One thing to remember when looking down at your member is to remember that you are looking down from quite a distance! Don’t compare yourself to extreme cases like you seen in adult movies, those guys are there because sporting something that is FAR from the norm.  Check out this post to learn how you can turn things around.

Most women will say size doesn’t matter and to a large percentage of them this would be absolute truth. Playing the numbers game and the law of averages, chances are that average is all that she has seen or experienced! There certainly are women who get off on the bigger members, make no mistake it is like us men looking at bigger breasts or larger backsides, practically speaking, it doesn’t relate to pleasure in all cases!

If you fall within the normal range and do not have a penis that is severely undeveloped I would look to other reasons why you seem not to be hitting the home runs with the ladies.